Reality: OWEPDUBAYU

Readers' discretion is strongly advised.

Away from our home country, our comfort zone and the familiar faces of friends and families back home, we live in a completely different world, with different kinds of nationalities, cultures and beliefs, different walks of lives, lifestyles and backgrounds.

I've always believed in the good inside all people, that beneath all the dark pasts, the rumors, the false gossips and everything not so nice thrown towards a certain someone, there is always someone worth loving deep inside.

In this situation however, we live in a world of practicality, being away from our comfort zones, its human nature to adapt to any means necessary to survive or live a better life abroad.. But I've always thought that there would be boundaries to such "means"..

Being the romantic that I am, I came to believe that somehow, the word "love" would be enough to dispel all the pride and temptations given in such a place like this.

I was wrong..

Money, fame, pride, bragging rights and social status are much more important to some (not generalizing) but maybe majority of our countrywomen I've encountered here, those words seem to be more important than what we call "morals" and "conscience"..

We were supposed to believe that in this place, given the cultural differences compared to our country, adultery is illegal and intolerable and even punishable by death. But hey, now I came to believe that pride and desperation is stronger than values.

I came to see that some of our countrywomen has chosen to walk down that path of choosing to be the concubine, the mistress and even as low as the fuck buddy of foreigners and even fellow countrymen who are higher up the corporate ladder, or people that can give them "power" and bragging rights over some others in the social jungle.

Our countrymen are often regarded as the powerhouses in the workplace, the hard workers and the renegade stooges who plays by our own rules, but to some foreigners from where I stand, we're lowlifes and weak because we can't even secure our own countrywomen to ourselves. That's their belief and I couldn't blame them..

Its rare to see any women of a different nationality dating our countrymen, but it's very common to see men of different kinds of nationalities dating women from our country.

It's disgusting to see your countrywomen walking down with a foreign old man, or with a married man, or with an old married man, knowing what she's really up to, knowing her intentions whatsoever, given that "love" is a slight possibility but more often than not, it's the other way around.

It's a fucked up world, some even has the guts to tell people that they are just using those people who truly loves them and those that would try and give them a proper life as "sponsors", taking advantage of their feelings and weaknesses towards them, while secretly dating and even sleeping with such people mentioned above (Rich, higher ups, or those who can give them "social bragging rights") and they're proud that they are and are not ashamed of what the fuck they're doing.

Even as low as playing poker face in front of the wife of the husband they had an affair with while pretending to be friends while in reality they're whores who couldn't help but feed their pride and ego with the "bragging rights" they so crave for. Believing that they're prettier and so much better than those they've shitted on the face on, when in reality, well, you know what you are.

Anywhere you walk around these places, these kinds of women do exist. Don't fall into that trap the way I did.

Regardless of which background anyone came from or no matter how expensive or exclusive ones education was, no matter how smart one was during high school and college, or how many awards and recognitions one has had educationally and professionally, everyone is prone to this kind of "culture" which is what some others consider as "in" and "cool" and is completely tolerated by those people around who does the same and those who enjoy the show.

I saw women whom I thought to be women with class and a ladies with brains turn out to be nothing but whores and bitches sleeping around, using people and playing with others emotions.. 

For what? money, attention, pride and fame. So much for your ideal girl.

I've always believed in morals and values.

But from my personal experience and of some others as well, its rare to meet someone with both from where I currently stand.

Bitter? nah... It's fucking reality.

As I've told, readers discretion is strongly advised.


BIG.