Through the Distance..

Oh well... It sucks...

Everyone expects it to be hard.. it never comes easy...

When you know the other one is loyal and honest as fuck, trust is not an issue, and well in this case, its not...

It sucks in a way that you miss the person so much... that you want her to be a part of your every day life and routine, well, she still is, through Skype.. It sucks though that she isn't there when you wake up in the morning, no one to cook breakfast for, no one to take to work or to wait to go home... No one there to make a debate on where to eat or what to eat for dinner... and countless other things that you've grown accustomed of doing with her before you got separated...

No one wanted it to be like this, we all know that if we had the means to be together with the person we love, we will do so... but life has a way of twisting things a little.. We never know what's gonna happen, what opportunities and all the other crazy things coming our way...We have very little control of what's gonna happen next, and we try to make the most out of that...

Fact is, you met for a reason, there has to be something behind everything... I believe in that shit.. Everything happens for a reason... We met for a reason, we fell in love for a reason, we became separated for a reason and someday, somehow, we will meet again for a reason...

Only question is when and how...

I have no idea as well... we can control the situation as much as we can, but truth is everything that's gonna be is gonna be... you'll never know...

It's normal to be negative at some point, ask the questions "is this worth it?" or "is this a deadend?" it's normal to doubt and question the state of your relationship...

But then...

You reminisce and remember about all the happy thoughts and happy memories you've shared together, all the things you've done and all the other things you could have done... everything that can happen or that is yet to happen..

Yes its hard, going the distance is hard as fuck.. but I guess I can say that it's for the strong willed, for the truly inlove, for those people willing to risk a few years of being apart for the hope of being together for the rest of your lives...

Most people say it doesn't work, that its doomed... but for those who succeeded in it, they claim that every minute of being apart was worth it for it made them love each other even more.. the longing, the missing, the countless nights of being alone was all worth it when it came to that particular moment that you lay your eyes on each other face to face once again...

Good things come to those who wait... Distance makes the heart grow fonder... only the strong ones survive... etc etc.. all the cliches and positive quotes about going through a long distance relationship start to catch your interest.. believing in those words, in those phrases and stories of success in such kind of relationships... you start to wish that all those words apply to everyone... but in reality, it doesn't...

It's all about faith in each other... the willingness to go through all the pain and hardships of being in a long distance relationship... knowing that one day... it will all make sense and it will all be worth it... with the right person... at the right moment.... at the right place...

I found mine, and it sucks that we're going through this right now... but it's worth the damn wait... and as of the moment... the first part of going through this relationship is done.. the next meeting is set...

Step by step we will be able to solve this puzzle... and as long as we're both into it.. We will figure it out...

.....together through the distance...