Numbers..

Does age really matter?..

Majority of people find their partners within their age bracket, give or take 2 or 3 years apart is average or normal.. same age is also fine as well as just a 1 year gap.. this is the norm in our society, especially these days wherein we meet that someone in school or in our workplace. It would be perfectly normal for people to try to find someone within their age bracket, given the physical state, emotional maturity, common interests, norms, hobbies, interests, experiences etc..

But still there are cases where we meet someone who seems to be far from our age and yet we still want to give it a try.. Looks can be deceiving as they say it, you would think that this someone is about 21-23 years old judging from her face and her body, but then you approach her and find out that she's 27 already.. so, will age matter or is it just a number?..

If its just a sexual relationship then fuck age, you probably will forget about her the next morning.. but what about if your looking to get serious with her? or worse, what if you're falling?..

There are pros as well as some cons, serious, emotional, psychological and sexual matters.

They say women is 2 years beyond their age when it comes to maturity, well for some yes but clearly not all. If you meet the right 1 though, then give the 6 or 7 year age gap, plus 2 for that maturity thing then that makes her maturity level 9 years older than yours, given that you're a 20 year old.. it could be a good thing if you're really into this person, because you would adjust and give up your childish ways to be able to cope up with her and her way of life, meaning you would mature faster than you know it.. 20 or 21 years old are the years (in my case) wherein I'm in the transition from graduating college and getting my 1st job, so the years (or months) in between are spent enjoying life before it starts to get busy.. drinking, partying etc.. And then you meet this girl who seems to be taking life seriously already, stood the tests of that particular age already, has responsibilities in life already.. you really want this girl, not only because of her body, but because she seems like a really wonderful lady.. but then ask yourself, will you be ready?.. someone 7 years your senior, imagine courting a 4th year high school student when you were still in grade 3.. you were crying because you wanted a gameboy for christmas while she was already enduring her 1st heartbreak.. imagine when you were still learning to masturbate, she was already masturbating someone.. given the 7 year gap I would say that that is completely possible.. a hard thought to make, psychological torture, sexual frustration and a mental breakdown.. Fact is this woman definitely had more experience in love and relationships than you did, so all those smooth talking, "diskarteng marino" style probably won't work cause she already dealt that bullshit about 3 or 4 years ago, and trust me when I say that you probably want to erase or never talk about her past again.. a nightmare for you..

Numbers will fuck you up, number of men she had slept with, number of times you think of it, number of times you'll depress yourself trying to dig deeper into her past, number of people trying the same thing you are doing now.. a lot of numbers to be dealt with.. a lot can and could have happened inside that (presumably) 7 year gap.. and it all wont sound so good in your ears, some of it you don't even have to know anymore.. in the end.. you just have to ask yourself.. does it really matter?..

Well my friend, if you relate to all that bullshit I just said and you agree, then give it up.. you didn't get the point.. if you're really into this person then whatever her past is shouldn't matter at all.. embrace it and be happy that its all done, she wouldn't be the person she is today, the person you seemed to have liked without all those experiences she had, good or bad, wild and nasty whatsoever.. true maturity means being able to accept the truths about life no matter how negative or unacceptable it may be.. shit happens for a reason..

This woman probably knows how to manipulate men by this time, a master of this art, she probably knows that she's worth drooling over and that she could easily control men with a wink of her eye or with that smile on her face.. whether she's manipulating you or she's really into you is something we'll never know but fact is, you're the one definitely caught under her spell..

Age is just a fucking number.


-krphclo